It has been 90 Days since we said 'I Do'... 3 months tomorrow.
There have been a lot of new experiences, moving in together, laundry, grocery shopping, cooking... pretty much everything a college student is supposed to learn on their own.
I did not move out from my childhood home with my family until I moved in with my new husband and started a new family.
Married life is beautiful, cozy, sweet... but it can be challenging, too. When you live together there are not a lot of places to go... especially when you need to be alone. That's okay, you learn, you adapt... you forgive much sooner.
Balancing a life and work, however, has been more challenging. Get up at 5:30 am, leave by 6:20 (at the latest)... After driving an hour and ten minutes in traffic, 140 miles every single day, dealing with children and people that forget you're a person, and coming home to quiet is nice...
Until you remember everything else you have to do: Clean up, Mail, pick up packages, cook dinner, try to mentally turn off from work... by then the hubby gets home, eats dinner, maybe watches an episode on netflix and gets to editing our other job, Sweet Start.
The next day start over...
Sound a little mundane...
Which is why, for my husband's birthday, on a whim, I booked tickets for Hawai'i to reconnect and take a break from everything. Still we edited weddings, but this time it was a little more relaxed... You know, take a sunrise walk, eat breakfast, edit a little, go to the beach, edit a little more, watch the sunset... dinner... just... yeah.